The new year is officially here and we are already half of a month away from our resolution lists. Actually, I am trying to shun the concept of "resolutions" and embrace a Goal List for 2014. Having a list of goals, both long term and short, seems to me a more viable means of consistently meeting my own expectations for the new year and beyond. Expectations that are realistically based and guilt-free, thank you very much. In goal setting, I am recognizing that some are attainable within the year, and others are the work of consistent progress, achieved only from lifetime of experience, of which I do not yet have.
While considering and contemplating my Goal List for 2014, I have now determined that there are certain gifts that I need to give to myself, in order to better attain my goals for the year. Yep, that's right . . . GIFTS.
Here are 5 gifts I will be giving myself this year . . . Why not join me?
Self-Care: Yes, yes, I know . . . physician heal thy self. I will be the first to admit this is not one of my stronger points. My kids actually dubbed Monday last week official "Thank you mom for working so hard day!". While it is sweet and considerate for my children to express appreciation this way, it is also a not-too-subtle sign that I spend more time working than most other activities in life. Self-care is most certainly on my Goal List for 2014, maybe it should be on your's too.
Here is my self-care plan:
- Eat clean
- Get exercise . . . .ha, ha!
- Get more sleep . . . Double ha, ha!
- Be consistent in using my essential oils for prevention, NOT therapeutic measures
Hobbies: Crochet. Herb gardening. Miniature gardens. Writing. I'm considering Stamp collecting & Coin collecting (yes, I am aware of how nerdy I am). Watching the Dallas Cowboys in agony . . . okay, maybe the last one does not officially count as a hobby.
Working with the sole purpose of enjoyment, and unwinding yourself from a day of "real life" work that was stressful or less-than enjoyable, this is what a hobby is to me.
Reading Time: Leaders are Readers & Readers are Leaders.
You are leading your children as God grows them in wisdom, stature and favor. Be equipped with the work of great ideas. Read the Bible, daily, that's a given. Read books that inspire you in your daily duties as wife, mother and educator. Get eclectic with your reading and try a new genre . . . expand your interests. Reading is essential in any education, including your own. If we wish to teach our children to be life long learners, then we best practice what we preach.
- One Bite at a Time, by Tsh Oxenrider
- 1599 Geneva Bible
- My Utmost for His Highest, by Oswald Chambers
- Morning & Evening, Charles Spurgeon
- The Charlotte Mason Companion, by Karen Andreola (I know I mention it frequently, but I love the "bite-sized" jewels to teaching the Charlotte Mason way.)
- The Brightest Heaven of Invention, by Peter J. Leithart
- Circle Makers, by Mark Batterson
- Scared Marriage by Gary Thomas
The biggest difference in me between being a beginner homeschool mommy, and where God has me now is this . . .
I no longer ignore, nor pretend that burn-out isn't coming. I know it will and I know that I must find a source of refreshment and renewal in order to avoid the unwanted end results!
How do I get Refreshed and Renewed? Homeschool Mom Winter Summit is one of the best places for me to contend with this issue and helps me to refresh, renew, avoid comparison-itis, and the overall mommy guilt that follows my general weaknesses.
Photo Credit: Lisa Pennington @ The Pennington Point
Go! You won't regret a minute spent seeking and searching the mysteries of God, in order to continue walking in His vision for your family and homeschool.
And, how about you don't just take my word for it? Check out the testimonial page online to see what other homeschool moms have to say about Summit.
Grace: One other item on my 2014 Goal List is to "grow in grace". This does not just mean asking God for more grace, nor just in the giving of grace to others. For me, it is recognizing that I too need grace for myself.
I cannot do it all. Why would I even want to?
I cannot have it all. Simplify.
I cannot be perfect. Christ came to give His grace freely to me. I should give every effort toward honoring that sacrifice by how I live. I should reflect that openly, even in the way I treat myself. Not selfishness, but selflessness that truly knows and recognizes the fact that without Christ's grace, I would be sufficient in nothing.
Be patient in waiting for Christ to work together all things for your good.
He is. He does. He will.
- Romans 8:28 (1599 Geneva Bible)
"Also we know that all things work together for the best unto them that love God, even to them that are called of his purpose."
Joyfully Learning with You,
The Joyful Socks Mom